PFOX Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays

Resources


PFOX (Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays) is aware of the following resources for those struggling with unwanted same-sex attractions, and for their families and friends:

To subscribe to the PFOX email list to receive periodic emails on ex-gay news and activities, send an e-mail to:  pfox@pfox.org

PFOX sponsors an e-mail discussion group at Yahoo Groups at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ex-gay .   It is comprised of parents, friends, and spouses of strugglers, as well as ex-gays.  You can just read the email postings or join in the discussion at any time with your particular day to day hopes and struggles.  If you would like to join, send a blank e-mail to:  ex-gay-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

Be sure to download our PFOX brochures, flyers and posters for distribution to public schools, churches, universities, libraries, exhibit booths, counselor’s officers, diversity centers, and anywhere you see gay literature.  Inclusion of the ex-gay message is the way to spread the word that change is possible and tolerance for those who have changed is necessary.  PFOX brochures are appropriate for secular settings too.   See for yourself at http://pfox.org/bookstore.html

PFOX maintains an ex-gay speakers bureau for local events, schools, conferences and church engagements.  Whether you are looking to address the origin of homosexuality, or an encouraging testimony of overcoming homosexuality, PFOX can help! 

College and High School Students!  Students, teachers and administrators can distribute ex-gay brochures on campus, request ex-gays speakers for gay events and diversity programs, hang ex-gay posters around school, place ex-gay books in the school library, create safe places for those who support alternatives to homosexuality, initiate ex-gay forums and school programs, post ex-gay links on the school website, and place brochures in campus centers, counselor’s offices or diversity departments. Contact PFOX at pfox@pfox.org and let us know what you’re interested in doing so we can send you the appropriate materials and help.  Also be sure to take a look at our student brochures at http://pfox.org/bookstore.html and invite an ex-gay speaker to your club or school at  http://pfox.org/Exgay_Speakers_Church_School.html

Interested in starting an Ex-Gays & Friends Club at your high school or college?  Some clubs are started as conservative student clubs which include the ex-gay perspective.  We can help you start those too!  Check out how at http://pfox.org/Start_ex-gay_friends_school_club.html

If you are a parent, sibling, or friend of someone in homosexuality, check out our web page at http://pfox.org/chapter_list.html to see if there is a local PFOX chapter in your area.  If you would like to start a PFOX chapter, please fill out the application at  http://pfox.org/start_a_group.html PFOX chapters hold regular support group meetings.

Want to volunteer for PFOX and work to advance the ex-gay community? Please fill out our volunteer application at http://pfox.org/volunteer-application-pfox.pdf

Jonah Institute for Gender Affirmation: 201-433-3444 or http://www.jonahweb.org (please use info@jonahweb.org to contact the organization by email.)  The Jonah Institute is a world-wide, non-denominational, full service clinical and research center working with professionals of many disciplines, including psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers, life coaches, and mentors, all of whom are trained in gender affirmation techniques, and in many cases, have themselves overcome a form of sexual confusion. In focusing on many aspects of sexual confusion, the Jonah Institute emphasizes counseling individuals and families on how to deal with the social, cultural, and emotional risk factors leading to gender identity confusion, homosexual behavior, sexual addictions and other sexual issues. They offer individual & group counseling in a variety of formats: in- person, over the telephone, and by video-conference through SKYPE. As part of a full service program, they also recommend specific experiential weekends for men, women, and families. 

Live Hope Ministry offers separate secure online forums for those struggling with unwanted same- sex attractions.  Discussion forums are available for teens, single women, single men, married men, or married women at http://forums.livehope.org/threads   Register and join the particular forum that applies to your situation.

People Can Change at www.peoplecanchange.com runs online support groups where men who have left homosexuality and resolved same-sex attraction problems give and receive support to those struggling with unwanted same-sex attractions.  All men who are conflicted over their sexuality and sincerely want to know what it takes to change to a more heterosexual orientation, and want to give and receive mutual support for change, are welcome. Men who have always been heterosexual are also welcome, on condition that their sole motivations are to give support and increase their own understanding, compassion and sense of brotherhood with us. These are not religious groups. Men of all faiths -- or no faith -- are welcome.  We do not discuss or debate religion, although men are welcome to share their own personal spiritual journeys.

Call NARTH (National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality) at 818-789-4440 for the names of therapists in your area who specialize in reorientation therapy.  To learn more about NARTH, they have a website at http://www.narth.com

If you are seeking an ex-gay ministry in your area that helps strugglers out of the lifestyle, call Homosexuals Anonymous at 281-712-2676 or http://www.ha-fs.org/

Powerful Change Ministry Group (PC) is a national fellowship of 11 Christian African-American led ministries whose goal is to advocate change for same-sex strugglers among people of color.  PC members work diligently to raise awareness in the Black community on the need for holistic ministry to affected individuals as well as their families. Contact:  DL Foster, National Coordinator at 404-362-0505 or 404-326-1414 or www.witnessfortheworld.org

Genesis Biblical Counseling. Joe Dallas provides pastoral phone counseling to clients around the world. It is accessible, simple, and confidential, offering the convenience of a phone call, plus the expertise of a recognized professional. More Information and to Sign Up  

HOPE Ministries is a ministry for Christian men who are resolving and managing homosexuality or Same-sex Attraction (SSA) offered by Dr Bill Consiglio, MSW SORT (Sexual Orientation Resolution Therapy), author of the 1991 book "Homosexual No More" also free online. It provides several Internet-based self-help programs, free short-term consultation by e-mail, in-person and tele-counseling. H.O.P.E. Ministries teaches that "homosexuality is not about sex, it's all about the underlying emotional need for love, acceptance, belonging and inclusion with a person of the same gender." Write to Hope Ministries of Connecticut, 876 Shepard Ave, Hamden, CT 06514. Telephone (203) 248-5274. Hours: Monday-Friday 9:00-5:00. E-mail allthings@counsellor.com Web site www.christianlifesight.net/hopeministries.htm

Other ministries for strugglers include:

Courage for Catholics at 212-268-1010 or NYCourage@aol.com or http://www.courageRC.net

Evergreen for Mormons at 1-800-391-1000 or 801-363-3837 or info@evergreen-intl.org or http://www.evergreen-intl.org

Exgay Links has an extensive list of ex-gay organizations at http://geocities.com/exgaylinks

Straightway is for Muslims at http://straightway.sinfree.net/

www.venusmagazine.org  is for ex-gay African-Americans

www.sa.org  is Sexaholics Anonymous for meetings near you

www.adventureinmanhood.com

www.mkp.org

www.wifeboat.com -- for wives of men with same-sex attractions

www.freshwordministries.info

www.gcmwatch.com

www.samesexattraction.org

http://www.josephnicolosi.com

http://savecalifornia.com/not-born-this-way.html

List of Ministries for Gender Identity Disorder:

http://pfox.org/Gender-Identity-Disorder-brochure-teens.pdf

http://www.narth.com/menus/gender.html

http://www.parakaleo.co.uk/

http://pfox.org/Surgical-Sex.html

www.syrogers.com

www.gendermenders.org

http://help4families.com

http://law.bepress.com/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=8309&context=expresso – legal

http://pfox.org/resources.html (Scroll down to resources on Gender Identity Disorder)

TR lawrence shame & narcissistic rage.pdf

 http://www.sexchangeinfo.com/more-resources

 www.sexchangeinfo.com

 www.sexchangeregret.com

Some ex-gay websites to check out:

http://www.pfox.org/diary_exgay_man.html

www.pathinfo.org

www.becomingreal.org

www.pfox.org

www.mygenes.co.nz

www.healingforthesoul.org

www.dawnstefanowicz.com (for children of gay parents)  

www.standardofliberty.org

http://witnessfortheworld.org/blkexgbks.html  (Books by ex-gay African- Americans)

http://www.exodusglobalalliance.org  (international)

www.ha-fs.org

www.ismychildgay.net

www.endcensorship.com

www.christianlifesight.net/hopeministries.htm

http://thesheepfold.typepad.com/ (Catholic ex-gay) 

http://www.davidmacd.com/web_pages/gay_testimony.htm#politics

http://healthystrongchurch.info

Teen ex-gay websites:

www.factsaboutyouth.com

www.findout.org

www.truetolerance.org

·  ExodusYouth.net

·  FindOut.org

·  ReachTruth.com

http://pfox.org/Voices-Exgays-handout.pdf

Speakers for churches and synagogues:

http://www.oneby1.org/speakers_bureau.html

Spanish language websites:

PFOX (Padres y amigos de Ex-Gays y Gays) ofrece un foro de discussion on-line en Yahoo Groups en http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ExGaySpanish .  Los miembros que componen este foro son personas que tratan de lidiar con una homosexualidad no deseada, aunque mayormente lo componen familiares y amigos de éstos.  A través del mail, los miembros del foro se comprometen a apoyarse diariamente los unos a los otros. Así que se puede participar en el foro o bien simplemente leyendo los mensajes que se envían, o bien tomando parte en la discusión mediante comentarios de las propias luchas y esperanzas del día a día.  ¡Te invitamos a unirte a nosotros!  Si quieres participar del foro, envía un email en blanco a la siguiente dirección, asegurándote bien de que los caracteres de la dirección son los correctos:

ExGaySpanish-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

www.courage-latino.org (Catholic)

www.pfox.org  (for brochure in Spanish)

http://www.exoduslatinoamerica.org

http://www.venusmagazine.org/Espanol.html

http://www.zapatos-nuevos.org/portal/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=42&Itemid=1

http://www.ivaf.org/hs/

http://www.esposiblelaesperanza.com

http://www.syrogers.com/products/messages.php (Uno de los Chicos – La Historia de Sy Rogers)

http://www.esposiblelaesperanza.com/images/stories/Autoayuda/Libros/ABC_para_comprender.pdf

http://www.esposiblelaesperanza.com/images/stories/Autoayuda/Libros/Homosex_Jokin_Irala.pdf

http://www.esposiblelaesperanza.com/images/stories/Autoayuda/Libros/Homosex_Esperanza_Aardweg.pdf

http://www.esposiblelaesperanza.com/images/stories/Autoayuda/Libros/Restaurar_A_Paulk.pdf

http://www.esposiblelaesperanza.com/images/stories/Autoayuda/Libros/Etica_cristiana_Moberly.pdf

http://www.esposiblelaesperanza.com/images/stories/Autoayuda/Libros/Homosex_Satinover.pdf

http://www.esposiblelaesperanza.com/images/stories/Autoayuda/Libros/Guia_Padres_Nicolosi.pdf

http://www.esposiblelaesperanza.com/images/stories/Autoayuda/Libros/Historias_sanacion_Nicolosi.pdf

http://www.unav.es/departamento/preventiva/homosexualidad

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3P5ETVmUOes

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ggTdTRSIlE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zwuvkM5gogw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AzFwLOBQXYI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78aUx41s-E

International websites

Ex Gay Germany

http://www.exgay.de/

 Liberty Ministries-Australia
Australia based support group helping those with SSA and gender confusion
http://www.libertychristianministries.org.au/

"Courage-Australia Chapters"
Courage, an apostolate of the Roman Catholic Church, ministers to those with same-sex attractions and their loved ones.
http://www.couragerc.net/WWCAustralia.html

"AGAPE/Basis -Danish"
Danish equivalent to Exodus International
http://www.foreningenagape.dk/Basis.html

"ASLAN-Finland"

Finnish Ministry for Homosexuals

http://www.aslan.fi/

"Bagong Pag-asa Ministry-Philippines"
Bagong Pag-asa Ministry is a Christ-Centered Ministry designed to help people struggling with homosexuality
http://www.bagongpagasa.org/

"Courage (Valor)"
Courage es un apostolado de la Iglesia Católica cuyo propósito es ministrar a aquellos con atracciones hacia el mismo sexo y a sus seres queridos.
http://www.courage-latino.org/

"Courage -The Philippines"
This is the Philippine chapter of the internationally-known organization "Courage", a support group of Catholics experiencing samesex attraction.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/courageph/

"Ex Gay Hong Kong"
New Creation Association is an ex gay ministry run by Kelvin & Tammy Chung
http://www.newcreationhk.org/

"Ex Gay Malaysia"
http://www.pluc.org.my/

"Ex Gay- France"
Le site Oser en Parler traite en majeure partie de l'homosexualité, mais aussi de la pornographie et des dépendances, qu'elles soient le fait de personnes hétéro, bi ou homosexuelles.
http://www.oserenparler.eu/oep/index.php

"Ex Gay Taiwan"
http://www.rainbow-7.org.tw

"Exodus Latinoamérica"
Exodus Latinoamérica es el brazo latinoamericano de Exodus Global Alliance, organización cristiana dedicada a proveer herramientas para comunicar efectivamente el mensaje de liberación de la homosexualidad a través del poder transformador de Jesucristo.
http://www.exoduslatinoamerica.org/

"Life Ministry -EGYPT"
Life Ministry in Cairo, Egypt is an Exodus member ministries in Middle East.
http://www.arabicrecovery.com/

"Medvandrarna- Sweden"
Swedish ecumenical network, who offers support and fellowship for people, who struggle with their sexuality, mainly homosexuality
http://www.medvandrarna.se/

"NUEVA CONDICIÓN -PUERTO RICO"
Capacitación a pastores y laicos para consejería a personas con problemas de homosexualidad y lesbianismo, talleres mensuales de capacitación, intercesión, asesoría espiritual, Congreso bianual de Redención Sexual.
http://www.nuevacondicionpr.com/

"Onzeweg-Dutch"
Dutch equivalent to Exodus International
http://www.onzeweg.nl/

"PathWay 2 Freedom-Philippines"
To provide an informal, safe, and accepting environment for anyone who needs or wants the benefits of counseling help. As a ministry, our calling to the homosexual community is of primary importance. However, we welcome anyone who seeks help through counseling.
http://www.pathway2freedom.org/

"RESTAURACIÓN-ARGENTINA"
Grupos de Contra la Corriente y Aguas Vivas, dirigido a personas con quebrantamiento sexual y relacional, capacitación de líderes
http://www.restauracion.org.ar/

"Restoring Wholeness -South Africa"
a cross-cultural, interdenominational ministry aimed at addressing sexual and relational issues. Our aim is toward Christians who are struggling with sexual problems, especially homosexuality (but not exclusively), as well as training the Church on how to deal with these problems.
http://www.restoringwholeness.org/

"Til Helhet -Norwegian"
Norwegian equivalent to Exodus International
http://www.tilhelhet.no/

"True freedom Trust-England"
True freedom Trust is a Christian support and teaching ministry for men and women who accept the Bible's prohibition of homosexual practice and yet are aware of homosexual tendencies, or struggle with other sexual and relational issues
http://www.truefreedomtrust.co.uk/

"VenSer-MEXICO"
Hombres y mujeres con conflictos de identidad sexual, apoyo a familiares y amigos, psicoterapia, consejería, grupos de aopyo, estudios bíblicos, cursos de capacitación, psicoterapia grupal y de pareja.
http://www.venser.org/

"Zapatos Nuevos-VENEZUELA"
Grupos de Contra la Corriente y Aguas Vivas, dirigido a personas con quebrantamiento sexual y relacional, capacitación de líderes. Se ayuda a hombres y mujeres, familiares y amigos. Venta de recursos (Manual del Programa de Zapatos Nuevos, próximo a publicar).
http://zapatos-nuevos.org/portal/

Der Neue Weg -Germany
"Der Neue Weg" ist eine Initiative von Betroffenen für Betroffene. Er hilft, begegnet oder informiert Menschen, die Probleme mit ihrer Sexualität und sexuellen Identität haben (z.B. Homosexualität, Bisexualität u.a.) und von sich aus Veränderung suchen, oder sich darüber Gedanken machen wollen.
http://www.derneueweg.ch/

German
Die Ablehnung der Homosexualität im Judentum
http://www.narth.com/menus/translations.html#German

Julio Severo's Blog-Brazil
a Brazilian Christian leader who has endured persecution from the homosexual movement there (both christian and political) for speaking out against the aggression and suppression tactics in his native country
http://www.juliosevero.com.br/

Living Waters Europe
a part of Living Waters International. LWE seeks to enable the church, across the denominations to apply the transforming power of the Gospel into the area of relationships and gender
http://www.livingwaterseurope.com/

REAL LOVE MINISTRY -Malaysia
http://www.r-l-m.com/

Reconnecting Canada
As a ministry, we seek to be very intentional about how we address the complex realities of gender and sexual identity ~ and particularly how these realities intersect with the Christian faith. We are committed to keep learning, growing and discerning how to be distinctly Christ-centered and engage in authentic, relational ministry.
http://www.reconnecting.ca/

Sanador herido -Blog de Venezuela
http://www.sanadorherido.org/

Sexualität & Identität-Germany
Dies ist eine geschichtliche und strafrechtliche
http://www.wuestenstrom.ch/page7/page7.html

Sexólicos Anónimos
Fraternidad que comparte sus experiencias, fortaleza y esperanza para recuperarse de la adicción al sexo.
http://www.sa.org/index.php?phpLang=spa

Stichting Onze Weg-Netherlands
http://www.onzeweg.nl/

True freedom Trust -Board Forum UK
TfT exists to make this way forward known. Many of us face homosexual issues personally. We offer support, help and encouragement to those on this journey and to their families and friends.
http://www.truefreedomtrust.co.uk

exgayenespañol -Yahoo Group
Este es un grupo cristiano conformado por personas que enfrentan luchas particularmente con atracción por el mismo sexo, y que entienden que el sexo homosexual es pecado delante de los ojos de Dios.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/exgayespana/

 

PFOX -- Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays

~ Supporting equal rights for the ex-gay community ~

Box 510, Reedville VA  22539,  804-453-4737, pfox@pfox.org, www.pfox.org

Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays (PFOX) is a non-profit organization supporting the ex-gay community and families touched by homosexuality.  You can join PFOX by sending a tax-deductible donation to the above address or online at http://pfox.org/donate.html All donors receive the PFOX Press newsletter.

P.S.  This list is provided for information purposes only – PFOX does not endorse any of the above resources or organizations.  If you find that any of the above phone numbers, e-mail addresses, or web sites don't work, please send us an email at pfox@pfox.org so we can update our list of resources.